The broken road. Most of us have traveled it. When a dream is shattered, when a relationship flounders, when our world falls apart the superhighways of life seem to disappear and we find ourselves on what appears to be a lonely and barren path.
It is a good road but not a welcome one. It’s not a chosen path. Some die on this path. They emotionally cave in. Spiritually they falter. When viewed as a broken road to nowhere that expectation comes true.
Others embrace the broken road. It heals them. And on the journey into their brokenness they discover that they are not alone. There are other wounded people on the same journey and God uses them to help heal our wounds.
I’m thankful for the broken road and for broken road healers.
Yesterday I did a wedding of two friends. I said this to them:
“You have traveled a broken road. And on the broken road a good and beautiful God has helped you discover a partner for your remaining journey. On your road, you embraced your personal brokenness, dealt with your sadness, found traveling companions, reacquired confidence in yourself and God. You’ve discovered that you can love again and in the process have allowed yourself to be loved. And you’ve learned to trust once more. And that’s huge because not to long ago you didn’t think you’d ever trust anyone again.
And so I believe God is smiling today. Two of his favorite broken road people are saying ‘yes’ to each other and He knows that you want Him in this marriage with you.
I’m privileged to know both of you. I’ve been blessed to be part of your journey. Just as both of you have blessed mine. I’m convinced that you know what love will require of you. You have the right vision of what your marriage can be. Your intention to live into the full potential of your relationship is a beautiful and good thing. You understand that the means of living into your dream will be fueled by healthy doses of both selflessness and intentionality…
God has blessed your broken road hasn’t he? You both have allowed God to use it to shape you more and more into the image of Christ. And God will use your broken road experiences to help and encourage others. I’m convinced of it.”
During the candle ceremony Racal Flatt’s ‘God Bless the Broken Road’ was sung. Very appropriate.
So, today, on Thanksgiving Day, I’m thankful for so much. But I’m especially thankful for ‘broken road’ people who enrich my life so wonderfully. They are the wounded healers who ‘get’ what life was meant to be and are making kingdom impact wherever they continue to travel.
And I want to give a special Thanksgiving shout out to Mike and Joyce, the ‘two who became one’ yesterday. Enjoy what God has done and will continue to do in your life. Woo hoo!!!
Especially to God I am thankful. Bill and Gloria Gaither said it well. "Something beautiful. Something good. All my confusion He understood. All I had to offer him was brokenness and strife. But He made something beautiful of my life." Yay God.